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#RI-69a91070·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 3-4 months into the relationship

Caring about his online interactions

I found out he likes posts from a girl he doesn't know, who posts thirst traps and gets male attention

What I wish I knew
"If he's comfortable with me knowing about his online interactions"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your boundaries and comfort levels"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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