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relationshipPartner's Values Clash
#RI-6aa4cf7b·5 months ago·
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Lookback: after arguing

can't marry him now

My fiancé befriended racist people, I couldn't accept it

What I wish I knew
"he had racist friends earlier"
If I could tell you one thing
"set clear boundaries with your partner"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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