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relationaltoxic relationship
#RI-69a91296·2 months ago·
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can't leave due to financial constraints

ex's hot/cold behavior led to a huge fight and threats to terminate lease

What I wish I knew
"boundaries should be set earlier"
If I could tell you one thing
"don't underestimate the power of setting clear boundaries"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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relational Category
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relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
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