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relationalrelationship doubts
#RI-69a9149a·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 4 years

Can't decide between stability and freedom

Feeling lost in a 4-year relationship, want to explore the world but fear guilt and cheating

What I wish I knew
"Understood my feelings better before committing"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your desires and boundaries clearly in relationships"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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