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#RI-69a913e3·4 months ago·
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“Can't compromise on honesty in a relationship”

Caught partner lying after initially valuing radical honesty

What I wish I knew
"Partner's true feelings on honesty before marriage"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate values clearly before commitment"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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