Relationshipsmicroaggression
#RI-69a9193b·4 months ago·
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“calling someone a nickname that implies size”
What Actually Happened
people calling me big guy for years, made me feel self-conscious
What I wish I knew
"how my words would affect others"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"think before using nicknames that could be hurtful"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
13%
of Relationships decisions land in the regret band the same as this one.
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