What Actually Happened
I realized I'm scared of marriage and the wedding feels performative. I want to work on our communication and intimacy issues first.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew if I was truly ready for marriage."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't feel pressured to get married if you're not ready."
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
relationship Category Average
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Impact
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