RelationshipsEngagement
#RI-69ba7936·6 months ago·
1
“Calling off engagement”
What Actually Happened
I realized I'm scared of marriage and the wedding feels performative. I want to work on our communication and intimacy issues first.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew if I was truly ready for marriage."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't feel pressured to get married if you're not ready."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
Short, upvotable wisdom. The most helpful rises to the top.
No advice yet. Be the first to share wisdom.
Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
React, question, or discuss this decision.