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#RI-6aa0da4a·5 months ago·
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Lookback: since LO's birth

built a 2.4m wall between houses

Wife's family and neighbors caused significant stress, leading to PPD

What I wish I knew
"how to better support my wife during this time"
If I could tell you one thing
"communicate openly with your partner about family boundaries and stressors"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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