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#RI-6ac23f61·3 months ago·
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“asked brother to wash better”

Brother's odor caused discomfort at social event, I offered help but he refused

What I wish I knew
"How to navigate helping him without being too hard or too soft"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be patient and understanding, but also set clear boundaries and expectations"
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Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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