relationshipBreakup
#RI-69a91709·2 months ago·
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“Broke up with ex after 9 years”
What Actually Happened
Wasn't nice to ex, felt unappreciated
What I wish I knew
"Communicate feelings instead of avoiding"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Work on self before trying to fix relationship"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relationship Category
743
relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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