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#RI-6ad4471b·about 1 month ago·
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“Considering having children”

Fear of repeating mother's abusive patterns and lack of parenting skills

What I wish I knew
"How to properly raise children without past traumas"
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider therapy and self-improvement before having children"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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