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#RI-69aa87b3·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 4 years in long-distance relationship

Boyfriend wants me to move to his country without meeting my family

Feeling uncomfortable and compromised in the relationship

What I wish I knew
"He would have met my family before asking me to move"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your needs and boundaries clearly"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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