relationshipsInfidelity
#RI-69f86e30·5 months ago·
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“AIO My bf(20M) sent nudes to another guy. Now I(21M) feels so insecure.”
What Actually Happened
Context:
We’ve been together for 5 months
I went through his phone on snap and seen the saved messages between him and some old guy. My heart dropped because I would’ve never thought he would do something like that. I felt betrayed and started to question myself. What am I not doing for you to want to go to another person instead of your boyfriend ? I give so much to him and try to help out the best way I can. We talked and I told him it sent my overthinking into overdrive and he told me to
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