relationshipUnsustainable Living Situation
#RI-69f8680d·5 months ago·
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“I'm feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, and unsure how long I can keep doing this”
What Actually Happened
My boyfriend's depression and lack of stability are taking a toll on me, causing me to feel drained and stressed
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known how to set boundaries and prioritize my own needs earlier"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and your partner about what you can and cannot sustain in a relationship"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relationship Category
743
relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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