“i (22f) snooped through my bf (26m) phone and found him texting other women… how do i even move on after this?”

TL;DR: snooped through my bf phone and found him lusting over women and i need help to confront him but don’t want to tell him i snooped through his stuff.

so we have been together for about 2-3 years, i’m not sure because we were just fwb before an actual relationship. we have had ups and downs before like any normal couple duh. we also have a 1yr old together. i have still been struggling with PPD and i don’t put myself together as i used to. i’m fatter, uglier, just all around not what i us