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relationalinfidelity
#RI-69ba7827·4 months ago·
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boyfriend cheated and has changed - not sure how to move forward or if I even can?

I suspected he wasn't being loyal and he was going out regularly. I broke up with him mentally while being on the boat.

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he was hiding his infidelity and disloyalty from me."
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and trust your instincts if you feel something is off in your relationship."
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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