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#RI-6ac86a1b·6 months ago·
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Lookback: A few months

“Being supportive without absorbing others' emotions”

Listened to friend's problems but felt overwhelmed afterwards

What I wish I knew
"How to separate my emotions from theirs"
If I could tell you one thing
"Practice self-care and set boundaries while listening"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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