What Actually Happened
Felt embarrassed and pathetic after boyfriend said he didn't feel tension, now questioning own attractiveness and worth
What I wish I knew
"How to create natural tension without 'performing'"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with partner about desires and boundaries"
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Relationship Category Average
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Impact
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