RelationshipsCommunication
#RI-6af2970b·4 months ago·
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“Booked a trip over special dates”
What Actually Happened
Boyfriend booked trip over my birthday & anniversary without considering my feelings
What I wish I knew
"He'd consider my financial situation before making plans"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with partner about feelings and plans"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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