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#RI-6a6b0374·9 months ago·
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“asked to participate in a blood pact”
What Actually Happened
He proposed a blood pact instead of engagement, suggesting it's a deeper commitment. I found it unsettling and laughed, which led to an argument.
What I wish I knew
"To communicate my boundaries and concerns without dismissing his feelings."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and respectfully about your boundaries and expectations in a relationship."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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