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RelationshipsAvoidant discard
#RI-6a7aaa38·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 10 weeks

“Ended relationship”

Was blindsided by ex, felt grief eat me alive, sobbed every day for 2 months

What I wish I knew
"No Contact is crucial"
If I could tell you one thing
"Fill your time with new experiences and hobbies"
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1/10
Positive or neutral outcome.
Would make the same decision again.
SettledMixedSevere

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