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#RI-6a9eae55·5 months ago·
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Lookback: several months

girlfriend stopped paying rent without telling me

felt betrayed, struggled with trust issues

What I wish I knew
"her financial expectations and boundaries"
If I could tell you one thing
"communicate openly about finances, establish clear expectations"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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