RelationshipsInfidelity
#RI-6a7aab81·9 days ago·
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“Had sex with bestfriend partner despite knowing he's in a relationship”
What Actually Happened
Had sex with bestfriend partner multiple times a week for 5 years, keeping it a secret from his girlfriend
What I wish I knew
"To consider the consequences of my actions on his relationship and my own well-being"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and others, and consider the impact of your actions on those around you"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
153
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.9/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
64%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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