self improvementlosing friends
#RI-69abc066·3 months ago·
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“became overly self-improvement focused”
What Actually Happened
became exhausting to be around, pushed friends away
What I wish I knew
"self improvement shouldn't define my personality"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"be normal, don't prioritize self improvement over relationships"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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self improvement Category
4
self improvement decisions logged. Avg regret 6.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
25%
of self improvement decisions land in the regret band the same as this one.
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