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coworkerobsession
#RI-6ae6bac5·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 3 weeks

“trying to avoid her”

Developed an obsession with coworker, causing misery and feelings of being a creep

What I wish I knew
"Avoiding her may not be enough to stop the obsession"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and the other person, but be prepared for the consequences"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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coworker Category
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coworker decisions logged. Avg regret 5.3/10 across the category.
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