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#RI-6a7aab1f·9 months ago·
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“Constant messaging to avoid missing”

Overthinking led to excessive messaging, suffocating partner

What I wish I knew
"Balance in communication is key"
If I could tell you one thing
"Let them initiate contact, respect their boundaries"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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