personalSelf-assertion
#RI-6a6b0d1b·7 months ago·
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“can't stand up for myself”
What Actually Happened
I feel lonely and anxious when trying to please everyone, including my aunt who's making me lose money on our trip
What I wish I knew
"how to set boundaries without being judged"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"set clear expectations and prioritize your own needs"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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personal Category
596
personal decisions logged. Avg regret 6.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
58%
of personal decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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