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#RI-6a6b0d1b·9 months ago·
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Lookback: when dealing with aunt

“can't stand up for myself”

I feel lonely and anxious when trying to please everyone, including my aunt who's making me lose money on our trip

What I wish I knew
"how to set boundaries without being judged"
If I could tell you one thing
"set clear expectations and prioritize your own needs"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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