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#RI-6a6b05a5·7 months ago·
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Asking someone else out after first date

I asked someone else out after our first date, feeling guilty and worried about honesty.

What I wish I knew
"To consider the other person's feelings before acting"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and upfront, but also consider the other person's comfort"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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