Social InteractionsAwkward Small Talk
#RI-6ae41726·5 months ago·
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“Asking a barista what Nagasaki is famous for”
What Actually Happened
I casually asked a new barista from Nagasaki what her city is famous for before realizing its tragic history. Fortunately, she politely mentioned a faux Dutch village, saving me from extreme embarrassment.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had engaged my brain before blurting out small talk about a historically tragic city."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Think for a few seconds about basic history before asking people what their hometown is famous for."
Regret Index
3/10
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