relationalasking out a classmate
#RI-69a91560·2 months ago·
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“ask her out in person or over text”
What Actually Happened
I asked her out in person at a downtown farmer's market, but she said no. I was anxious about it beforehand, but I tried to be confident. I'd rather know the outcome now than wonder about it later.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to gauge her interest better before asking her out."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't be afraid to take the risk and ask someone out in person, but also be prepared for rejection."
Regret Index
5/10
Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
3%
of relational decisions land in the mixed band the same as this one.
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