Relationshipscommunication
#RI-69aa84f3·5 months ago·
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“Approach friend about past issues”
What Actually Happened
Friend withdrew, lashed out, and stonewalled me, causing hurt and resentment
What I wish I knew
"How to communicate effectively and set boundaries"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and open, but also considerate of the other person's feelings and perspective"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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