RelationshipsOne-sided relationships
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"I'm always the one chasing love and friendship"
What Actually Happened
My first love left me after I initiated everything, and now I'm in a friendship where I'm always the one who messages first
What I wish I knew
"how to initiate less and let others take the lead"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"don't be afraid to stop reaching out and see if the other person will contact you first"
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Relationships Category Average
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Impact
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