Relationshipsmarriage
#RI-69ba7891·6 months ago·
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“allowed wife's mom to disrupt my time with family”
What Actually Happened
wife only spent time with me to avoid arguing or to rush me to bed so she could talk to her mom
What I wish I knew
"my wife's priorities and boundaries before getting married"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"communicate with your partner about your needs and boundaries before they become issues"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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