personalrelationship
#RI-6a6b071d·7 months ago·
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“allowed ex-fiancé to discuss needs”
What Actually Happened
boyfriend's ex showed up at hospital, caused emotional distress
What I wish I knew
"ex-fiancé's influence still present"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"communicate boundaries clearly"
Regret Index
9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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personal Category
596
personal decisions logged. Avg regret 6.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
58%
of personal decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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