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#RI-6a23c98c·8 months ago·
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Lookback: few months

“sent a text message to another woman”

my wife found the text message and wants a divorce

What I wish I knew
"the consequences of my actions"
If I could tell you one thing
"accept responsibility and make sense of the situation"
0
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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