relationshipsUnrequited love
#RI-69a919c0·2 months ago·
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“Admitting feelings to coworker”
What Actually Happened
I've been secretly admiring my coworker for six months and want to confess my feelings, but fear the potential consequences, including ruining our 'thing' and job security.
What I wish I knew
"How he might react and whether he feels the same way"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and open about your feelings, but also consider the potential risks and consequences"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationships Category
559
relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
57%
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