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#RI-6a7aa920·4 months ago·
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“Talk to her about cookware damage”
What Actually Happened
She damaged my new nonstick cookware again, despite my clear rules, and became defensive when I reminded her.
What I wish I knew
"To communicate my concerns without escalating the situation"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Remind your partner of the issue calmly and avoid being confrontational"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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