RelationshipsLack of Spontaneity
#RI-6a6b03ca·9 months ago·
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“Wanted partner to share planning and enthusiasm”
What Actually Happened
Partner lacks input and spontaneity, leaving me feeling unfulfilled
What I wish I knew
"He would have been more proactive in sharing ideas and showing interest in my life"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't settle for a partner who doesn't share your enthusiasm and drive"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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