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#RI-6a7aa9b3·3 months ago·
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Accidentally saw girlfriend's messages with ex

Saw deleted messages with ex; feel distant and worried

What I wish I knew
"Why she deleted messages and if she's still in touch with ex"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with partner to clear doubts and fears"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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