RelationshipsTrust
#RI-6a7aa9b3·6 months ago·
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“Accidentally saw girlfriend's messages with ex”
What Actually Happened
Saw deleted messages with ex; feel distant and worried
What I wish I knew
"Why she deleted messages and if she's still in touch with ex"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with partner to clear doubts and fears"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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