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abusive relationshipfinancial abuse
#RI-6a6b06cd·7 months ago·
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Lookback: almost 3 years after divorce

married too quickly

ex-husband took out credit in my name, stopped payments after divorce

What I wish I knew
"understood financial imbalance and power dynamics"
If I could tell you one thing
"set clear boundaries and prioritize financial independence"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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