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RelationshipsAbusive Relationship
#RI-6a6b068d·9 months ago·
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Lookback: 5 years together

“Married close to 3 years”

He drove me away, forced me to live with his parents, and eventually divorced me after manipulating me.

What I wish I knew
"He was using me as a scapegoat for his own issues."
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't ignore signs of a partner's emotional decline and seek help together."
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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