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"Stopped visiting my paralyzed father due to his abusive past and racist behavior"
What Actually Happened
I felt overwhelmed by my father's condition and his past actions, so I stopped visiting him, which affected me badly and led to me quitting my job and leaving the country
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had set boundaries with my father when I was younger"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't enable abusive behavior, prioritize your own well-being"
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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