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#RI-6a7aaa18·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 8 months after marriage

“Wanting to leave husband due to lack of effort”

Husband spends all day gaming, neglects responsibilities, and has poor financial management

What I wish I knew
"He'd take my concerns seriously and make an effort to change"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your needs and concerns"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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