relationalabandonment
#RI-6a7aa938·2 months ago·
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“left me at a concert”
What Actually Happened
He got drunk and abandoned me, then said it was my anger that was crazy
What I wish I knew
"he'd take more accountability for his actions"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"don't forgive someone who doesn't take responsibility for their mistakes"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relational Category
685
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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